7 - To be or not to be... alone?

"61. Alone"

Forever alone? I mentioned sometime last time that some people separate from other because they are a misfit. Some don’t want to be along because they think it’s depressing. For me, being alone isn’t all bad in fact it sometimes help you. Alone, if you don’t know (obviously you do), is a state that you don’t join people.

          Though alone, they say is, depressing, why do some people choose to be alone? Some people choose to be along because they feel depressed or sad. They don’t want to cry in front of others and they don’t want to be hurt by the people around them. Sometimes it’s just a  part of them that they fell comfortable without others, they find entertainment through themselves. Sometimes they think that they are already independent and they don’t need immaturities with them. It still feels kind of sad though. You can make more wild guesses why people choose to be alone but I just cited some of the negative things about alone.

               Well if there are some negative concepts about alone then there are some positive ideas too. Because of you being alone, you can find yourself at peace. No one is bothering you and you can practically do whatever you want. Being alone isn’t because you’re sad but it also means you need some space from those you are busy at. If you come back, you’ll get less bored because you missed their joy and laughter. It’s like taking a break and then going back to them at the right time. Maybe being alone helps you find your epiphany and clear your mind.

               I am not saying that you should be alone because of the positive things I cited but it is up to you if you want to be a loner. If you have free time, think twice if you want to take a day off and sleep for the whole day or if you want to be with your friends because you want to take life to the fullest. After all, no man is an island.

               In conclusion, being alone helps us not just mentally but also socially. Like all bad things, this concept can also bring good things like the refreshment of your mind. Be along or not, as long as you feel comfortable you should do it. Take the time to realize what you have done for the time being and may you unlock what you have realized. Do you still believe in forever alone?